Both, I have told them about my history and talk openly and freely with them both, as well as their friends that come over. We are also very active in their school and extra curricular activities, both with attendance, encouragement, re-inforcement, and financial.
There is an old saying my father used to use...Life is a series of decisions...your goal is to make as many right ones as possible. We try and instill that in all the kids we come in contact with, both in our family and our youth league.
We spend as much time with our kids as they can possibly stand LOL.
Why just the other day I gave my son his first lesson in Brake Pad replacement on one Subaru WRX....funny thing is he says..Thats all it is? I like changing brake pads.
He might have been sniffin brake fluid!
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